Frequently asked questions
Clear answers. Real reassurance. Every step of the way.
Emotional questions
These are often the questions people are most afraid to ask. They are also the most common.
Will I love the child as much as if it were my own egg?
Yes. Many parents who conceive through egg donation describe an immediate and deep bond with their child.
The decision may feel complex at first. The experience of pregnancy, birth and raising your child creates a connection that is just as strong and meaningful.
Will I feel like a “real” mother?
Yes. Motherhood is defined by love, care and the relationship you build with your child. Not genetics.
Many women have these concerns at first. Once their child is born, those feelings naturally fall away.
Will the baby feel like mine?
Yes. Your body carries and nurtures your baby throughout pregnancy. That creates a powerful physical and emotional connection from the very beginning.
Process and medical
How does egg donation work?
You select a donor. Your cycle is coordinated with hers. A fertilised embryo is then transferred into your uterus.
Your clinic guides you through the medical steps while we coordinate the process and support you throughout. See the full step-by-step process.
How long does the process take?
From selecting your donor to embryo transfer, the process typically takes 6 to 10 weeks, depending on your cycle and treatment plan.
What are the success rates?
Success rates depend on several factors, including your clinic and your individual medical circumstances.
South African fertility clinics are internationally recognised, with success rates of up to 75% in egg donation cycles.
What happens if the first cycle is not successful?
If you have additional embryos, they can be frozen for future use. Your doctor will guide you on next steps and your options from there.
Donors and selection
Can I choose my own donor?
Yes. You have full access to our donor database and can browse and select a donor who feels right for you. View our egg donors.
Prefer some help? Book a donor selection consultation by Zoom or Microsoft Teams. We will match you with suitable donors based on your preferences.
How are donors selected?
Every donor goes through a thorough screening process, including medical and psychological assessments, before she is accepted into our programme.
Are donors anonymous?
Yes. In line with South African law, all egg donations are anonymous. No identifying information is shared.
Can I meet my donor?
No. Egg donation in South Africa is strictly anonymous. Direct contact between donor and recipient is not permitted.
Legal
Is the child legally mine?
Yes. In South Africa, the woman who gives birth is the legal mother of the child. You have full parental rights and responsibilities.
Does the donor have any rights to the child?
No. The donor has no legal rights or responsibilities toward the child.
Practical and logistics
Can I use my own fertility clinic?
Yes. We are completely independent and work with clinics across South Africa and internationally. You are free to choose the clinic that suits you best.
Do I need to travel to South Africa?
Yes, if you are an international recipient. We help with travel guidance and coordination so your journey is smooth and well organised. Support for international parents.
How long do I need to stay in South Africa?
Most recipients stay for about 7 to 10 days, excluding travel time, depending on treatment timing.
Costs and finance
What does egg donation cost?
Egg donation has several parts: agency fees, clinic costs, medication plus donor-related expenses. We guide you through the full cost structure so you know exactly what to expect. See fees and payments.
Are there financing options available?
Medical finance providers and funding options may be available depending on your circumstances. We can point you toward the options that may apply to you. Read about fertility finance.
Support and guidance
What support do you offer during the process?
We support you through your entire journey, from donor selection to treatment and beyond. Our role is to make the process feel clear, supported and as stress-free as possible.
Do you support single parents and same-sex couples?
Yes. We believe everyone deserves the chance to become a parent. We support individuals and couples of all backgrounds, identities and circumstances with respect and complete confidentiality.
Can I speak to someone who has been through this?
Yes. We can put you in touch with previous recipients who are happy to share their experience. Ask us for a reference.
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Still have questions?
Every journey is unique. It’s completely normal to have questions. We are here to guide you whenever you need it.
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